HOW TO BUILD SELF CONFIDENCE 8 PRACTICAL TIPS
Once Zig Ziglar said do not look down on yourself, because once you think you are not worthy of anything, that gives birth to negative thoughts that result in your action.
That means we are responsible for our confidence, during my childhood, I was very much into reading the Bible, Which would have been a good thing if I had not been completely dependent on God for everything.
That means I was running away from taking the responsibility of my life, Ultimately what we believe on inside is something we project outside.
BE RELIGIOUS BUT NOT DEPENDENT ON GOD,
The importance of self-confidence and why it is important.
An opinion poll conducted by MEN'S HEALTH MAGAZINE[1000 women rated traits related to personality and character higher than physical attractiveness] Physical attractiveness didn't even make the top 10!
Ways to build self-confidence
We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think buddha
1] BE grateful for your uniqueness - you are born with a unique identity, you have a different perspective and unique looks, no one can have the same fingerprints as you do.
2]Give 100% effort - whenever you put in your best effort and put forth what you have got it always gives you satisfaction beyond measure irrespective of the outcome.
3] Perseverance with baby steps- perseverance is the unique gift given to men by God, Everyone has their share of failure don't let them stop you, work on your failure by taking baby steps,
4] OVERCOME ADVERSITY - Overcoming adversity builds self-worth, Jose Feliciano created history after overcoming his blindness to become the world's greatest guitarist.
5] Be an achiever - Set small goals and achieve them, our mind takes great joy in achieving what we fix in it, it will make you unstoppable.
6] Don't believe lies- whenever you fail in something shrug that off your shoulder as soon as possible, see yourself as getting one step closer to your goals, use a sentence like I like myself,
iam a genius.
7] Face your fears - This is the crux of everything, you lack confidence because you fear getting rejected fear of people will make fun of you, keep a simple mantra face everything you fear deliberately, you can't even imagine who you would discover.
8] Groom yourself- Take good care of yourself by keeping yourself fit physically and mentally and make a point of becoming the best version of yourself.
9] A good motivating talk- whenever you feel down about yourself, remember your past achievements and remind yourself what you are made of.
What is the relation between self-image and confidence?
You might have heard people saying without confidence you cannot achieve anything in life, but your self-image gives rise to confidence and your confidence give rise to the belief.
Why do you see a huge disparity between the belief system of achievers or successful people, and unsuccessful people?
Because their self-image about themselves is great, without having a good self-image you cannot have self-confidence and without that, you cannot perform at your best and success doesn't come with half-hearted efforts.
Do not make a mistake between self-image and self-confidence, one-liner explanation for this would be self-image means how you fell about yourself overall and self-confidence means how you feel about your abilities.
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